Mama, ti imaš najmekši stomak na svijetu: Situacija koja je jednu mamu natjerala da zavoli svoje tijelo (FOTO)

Mališani svijet oko sebe vide onakvim kakav on jeste i nisu svjesni da su norme ljepote uobičajene u društvu, a upravo iz tog razloga je jednu mamu sin “počastio” komplimentom koji joj je promjenio pogled na svijet…

Djeca su uvijek iskrena i neposredna, a način na koji ona vide stvari često je jedinstven, ali i tačan.

Mama Ešli Novej se nedavno našla u simpatičnoj situaciji koja ju je naučila da nema razloga da se stidi svog postporođajnog tijela, posebno ne pred djecom.

Ona je na svom Istagramu podjelila fotografiju koja je vrlo brzo postala viralna, a ponajviše zbog komentara koji je napisala pored fotografije:

“Prošle noći, dok sam se mazila sa najstarijim sinom, on je u jednom trenutku spustio glavu na moj stomak i primjetio: ‘Mama, ti imaš najmekaniji stomak na svijetu. Kao mekani jastuk je. Ako budemo putovali negdje gde neće biti jastuka, ja ću ti dati svoj, a ja ću spavati na tvom stomaku’. Moja prva reakcija je bila da se trgnem ili da mu kažem da nije lijepo reći nekome da ima mekan stomak, ali onda sam ipak zastala. To je bio potpuno nevin dječji zaključak i u njemu nije bilo ničeg osim puno nježnosti i ljubavi. Nakon što sam ga poljubila za laku noć i otišla na spavanje, razmišljala sam o tome koliko sreće će imati njegova buduća supruga jednog dana. On u mom postporođajnom tijelu vidi samo ono pozitivno, tako će biti i u njenom slučaju. On će znati da će i njeno tijelo nakon porođaja biti meko. Znati će da će imati strije. Razumjeti će da će njeno tijelo pričati priču o početku novog života – prvo poglavlje jedne prelijepe priče. Voljeti će je još više zbog toga. Znam i osjećam to.

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Last night, as I tucked in my oldest, he noticed my stomach and put his head on it. "Mom, you have the squishiest stomach. It is like a soft pillow. If we traveled somewhere and there was no pillow, you could have the pillow and I could just lay on your stomach." My first reaction was to cringe, or to tell him that it isn't nice to tell someone they have a squishy stomach, but then I thought better of it. He meant it in a loving way. He was admiring its gentleness and its softness. Soon after, one of the twins came in and joined us for cuddle time. He admired its jiggle, too, with an exceptionally loud zerbert that only a mama with so much skin can offer. Grady proudly stated that this is where they lived as babies, and that they came out of my stomach, but that babies more often "come out of the vagina." One quick anatomy lesson later, and I kissed them goodnight. —————————————– As I walked down the hall, I thought how lucky his wife would one day be. He only holds positivity for my #postpartum body. I know he will hold the same for hers. He knows that her postpartum body will be softer. He knows that it will have lines. He understands that her body tells a story of the start of a life–the first chapter of someone special's story. He will look at his wife as strong, and brave, and generous for giving life. He will only love her more. I know this of him. ————————————- I'm so glad I let him talk about my stomach and its "imperfections" instead of guarding my ego. Life through the eyes of a child is raw and beautiful. Know that your child thinks your stomach is exactly as it should be, too. Because it is! ———————————– And how about this fun fact. Did you know there is a Pokémon character whose nickname is "Squishy"? He also shared this fun fact in our discussion. ? —————————————– #mom #momlife #selflove #postpartum #postpartumbody #mombod #bodyafterbaby #twinmom #momof3boys #fitmom #fitmommy #fitmomsofig #diastasisrecti #pelvicfloor #embrace #embracethesquish #loveyourself #boymom #twinskin Photo credit: @jadebeallphotography

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